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I am the type of person who used to have a very negative attitude to most aspects of life. I am not alone in thinking this way as most of the people I meet seem to be constantly moaning about different things and basically feeling sorry for themselves. In this article I will be writing about the many benefits that come by way of thinking in a positive manner.

About ten years ago I decided that I needed to have a change of approach. I wanted to be a happy and care-free person and was fed up of always being stressed and worrying about the future. To achieve this I started to read many self-help, confidence type books and websites.

There was a regular message which came from this literature which was to think more positive and to believe in your ability to succeed in whatever you attempt to do.

Well these words are all too easy to write down in a book however they can be very hard to actually implement on a day to day basis. Of course I tried but in truth I did not really believe in the whole practice. I would go into a task thinking, I can do this, but it would still end up in failure.

I could not understand what was going wrong so I therefore went back to the books to try to learn more. I have to say that this was very pleasing progress as this was a new topic of knowledge for me to learn which is of much importance and is something that I had missed at the outset. What I had to do was to take a positive out of whatever happens to me, even if this is learning from my failings.

I am not personally involved within this industry; I am in fact working on various projects to do with selling composite doors, offering cheap mobile calls and running stammering help courses.

As an example of taking a positive from whatever happens in life, is something which happened in my family recently. My nan has recently passed away, she was eighty-eight. I would go to see her at least four times a month; she lived in sheltered accomodation. She was a very honest person and always talked very openly to me. Around two months before she died she told me that she was very tired and that she no longer wanted to be on this planet.

I was quite shocked by her admission and asked her what was wrong. She stated that she had nothing to look forward to and that she did not want to reach a point where she could no longer bath herself etc. I was told, in no uncertain terms, which was just typical of my amazing nan, that I should not remain upset about her death for too a long period as life is too short to waste on such trivial things - especially life as a youngster - her words not mine.

This was quite upsetting for me to hear but at least she was being honest of course. Two months later my dad phoned me and told me that my nan had passed away in the night.

I was obviously upset and the thought of never being able to see her again hit me hard. I then thought about what she had said and looked up to the sky and gave my nan a smile and a message, I love you.

I thought positive about the whole event and was actually happy for her. I hope that one day we will meet again.